Psych Buzzwords, Debunked: Gaslighting

One of the things I truly appreciate about our modern times is how much more emotionally aware younger generations are becoming. I love seeing the sensitivity, language, and openness they bring to conversations around mental health—and honestly, I’ve even learned new terms from them, like the trending phrase “functional freeze.” But there’s a double edge to this awareness. With so much psychology content circulating on social media, important concepts sometimes get misused or watered down. A single trending video can take a clinical term and strip it of its true meaning. Words like gaslighting, narcissist, or love bombing can easily become catch-all insults, or worse—minimize very real experiences of harm. That’s why I’ve decided to launch a series unpacking some of these buzzwords. My goal is to clear the air, give context, and help us use this language in ways that validate rather than harm. And where better to begin than with a fan favorite? Let’s talk about what gaslighting really ...