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An Ode to Friendship: The Love We Often Overlook

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When we think about love in February, our minds often go straight to romantic relationships. But love exists in many forms, and one of the most enduring and transformative is the love we share with our friends. Friendship love is often overlooked in conversations about love, yet it is one of the purest, most consistent, and most fulfilling connections we experience. So, as we wrap up our February season of love series, it feels only fitting to celebrate the beautiful and profound love we share with our friends. The Unique Strength of Friendship Love I recently had a conversation with a friend—one of my newer friendships, but one that quickly turned into a great connection. In the year and a half that we’ve known each other, we’ve shared countless laughs, supported each other through heartache, and made lifelong memories—all in what feels like such a short time. As we talked about life, I found myself reflecting on how deeply I feel understood in my friendships. There’s something spec...

Modern Dating Influences on Sex, Intimacy, and the Pursuit of Love

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Exploring the intricate relationship between modern dating, sex, intimacy, and love reveals a complex and ever-evolving landscape shaped by technology, shifting societal norms, and changing personal values. While the "swipe era" has its pros and cons, the distinction between sex, love, and intimacy has become increasingly blurred. So, what’s the difference? Let’s talk about it—and how to survive the dreaded “ick” in modern dating culture. There was a time when sex was often tied to deeper emotional or relational significance. Yet, by definition, sex has always been simply “sexual activity, including intercourse, as a means of reproduction or for pleasure.” The problem is that the word intimacy is often used interchangeably with sex, though the two are vastly different. Intimacy is defined as “a close, familiar, and affectionate personal relationship with another person or group.” While both sex and intimacy are fundamental human needs, they serve different purposes. Sex ensur...

The Most Important Love Story: The One You Have With Yourself

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We can’t do a Valentine’s-inspired series on love without talking about the most important relationship in your life—the one you have with YOU! Yet, this relationship is often neglected or pushed to the bottom of the priority list. And that comes with some big problems. Of course, we’ve all heard the cliché quotes: "Put your oxygen mask on first before helping others." "You can’t truly love others until you love yourself." These are great perspectives and entirely true. They’re also vague in execution. Even worse, they can sometimes serve as justifications for selfish behavior, hidden behind a flowery meme. So, let’s cut through the fluff and talk about what real self-love looks like and how to improve your relationship with yourself What Does Self-Love Look Like? 1. Making and Keeping Promises to Yourself Example: Sticking to a bedtime, drinking more water, or following through on a personal project Every time you set a goal and follow through, you build self-worth...